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You know? It’s not worth it. I should just break up with Deven and go out with Ryan. It’s pretty much what everyone thinks I should. Let’s ignore the fact I like Garrett. Let’s ignore the fact that I can’t stop thinking about, no matter how much is pisses me off. Let’s.ignore.everything.
I swear, I honestly swear, I hate him. I hate him so fucking much. I don’t like this at all. I hate it. and I hate him.
fuck. I want ice cream in the worst fucking way. I don’t care if I’ve been eating it the last few days. It makes me happy.
-Selphie.
Friend of a Friend
Tell me why you have a boyfriend. I think it’s rather annoying that you make your life this dramatic when it seems like all of this drama is being caused by ‘boyfriends’. Seriously. Do you want your life to lighten up and get a little bit more easier? Lose the boyfriend, focus on your studies and /ENJOY LIFE/. You don’t need a boyfriend to enjoy life. In fact I think it’s absolutely unnecessary to have a boyfriend at your age. You’re barely a teenager for Christ’s sake.
Selphie
Well, um. I’m not trying to be rude, but when I write on here, it’s a place to vent. and yea, I’m barely a teenager in terms of actual age, but that doesn’t equal maturity.
And, uh, Deven’s not a boy. She’s a girl. Not that it matters now, cause we’re not dating anymore.
But, I mean, in the end, post what you want. And I’ll continue posting what I want. If you don’t like what I post - then please don’t read it. But I’ll write what I like. Maybe it sounds dramatic to you, but at the end of the day, I was really upset. Now, not so much. I’ve just accepted it.
*shrugs* Either way, this doesn’t make much sense and I need to get ready for school.
-Selph
Duo
@”Friend of a friend”
Exploring relationships is a part of living life. Furthermore, who are you to dictate to Selph, what she should and shouldn’t do in life? Boyfriends, girlfriends…all of it is a part of life.
She expresses it here, not to listen someone who wants to troll with completely anonymous comments. If you want to pass judgment, on someone who IS living life, making mistakes and learning and growing, then I would say you need to lose the blog habit and grow the hell up.
I’ll take a hundred people who want to reach out, try things, think about them, and work them out through trial and error, and learning from what happens, than one person who thinks they know it all and feels their view on things is the only way.
Selphie is learning, like all people learn. By looking at things, thinking, and expressing herself. Even if she makes a mistake, she knows how to learn from them.
And, the fact that she understands how to learn from mistakes, as opposed to make them over and over…along with the fact that she knows how to be respectful of the opinions of others, without being subjectively judgmental…well those facts tell me she is a better person than you.
So, Friend of a Friend, I would put it to you that you are neither a friend to anyone, or a friend to Selphie.
Your judgmental tone, and your nature of being quick to judge show that you know nothing of the meaning of the term “friend”. But, hey, there’s always time to learn from your mistakes. =)
Grow up. I can’t imagine who’s friend of a friend you are, or how this validates your judgmental and asinine commentary..but I can already tell: you seem to be a troll, with an aim towards expressing your narrow minded view, to the exclusion of others.
Duo.
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